Congratulations to all my friends who graduated | How to figure out your life after graduation?

Congratulations to all my friends Who are graduated now. This was the time you all were waiting for but what is your ultimate goal?  Is it to get a new job and earn a handsome amount of income or is it to work hard so you can rest and be happy before you get old? I believe it is to be happy.

The biggest reason we get unhappy in life is that we play life in reverse. Today when kids graduate from University or college the first thing, they run for is a job that can help them get stable and live a normal life so that they can get married.

The number one thing you should be thinking about is the highest risk behavior around the thing that you think is going to make you the happiest. I'm talking about lifetime happiness like in the fairy tales where they live happily ever after but the point is how are you going to get there? I would recommend you work for free or minimum wage possible for the exact human being that you aspire to be. Do not make the same mistake your parents did. Let me make one thing clear I’m a person who does not like to work for the government, I never played in the system. I was the worst student I will be brutally honest with you. The government will force you to work for money until your 60s. What will you do if I tell you that you only need to work for money till you are 35 and after 35 money will work for you? Life is short. Let’s suppose that right after you graduate you get yourself a job that pays you RS30,000. a month, you are happy, you are rising like a phoenix and then you get a call that you have to go to the other city for a business and you get hit by a car and die. This is life! You may think that you can work for money now and then in the future you will have time to do what you really like but the truth is that you never know!

This post is not for those who are determined to have an M Phil or Ph.D. degree if you want higher education I am not going to stop you but higher education does not lead to happy life if you have an M Phil or Ph.D. degree and you are not happy with your life and relatives and your husband or wife then what's the point you're just wasting your time. if you want to be happy, I recommend that right after your bachelor's you work for free for a company or a brand that you really want to work for. Spend some time there. Learn the process and after this if possible, go and try to start your own company or launch your own brand or make some content of your own and publish it on YouTube or whatever you think will work for you. Because if you really love to do something and work towards it then there is a 90 percent chance that it is going to work because when you are really into something you will put your heart and soul into this. But at the same time, you should not be afraid to fail. You may still fail in it maybe because of one wrong decision or maybe anything. It can by anything based on your idea.

Some people’s DNA strives towards perfection but when you go for perfection it eats up the allocation of your time. Do not be too much focused on your grade point average (GPA) but on the skills that will help you grow. Trust me your GPA is never going to help you to make you your first million. Just literally do what feels better right that moment and make it about you. Because usually what kids struggle with is the decision, they want to do versus the decision they think they should do based on the other voices. This is the time to taste and put yourself in good positions. This is the time when you need to be ridiculous. Do not play safe while you are young. Take a risk now so you can be at ease when you get old.